In Key 4 we will look at four steps in the grieving process: acknowledge, accept, connect, and adapt. You will learn to acknowledge where you are with the loss to move through grief. You will learn how to accept the loss of your child to abortion. Some men choose to express love for their child by finding ways to connect with the loss by honoring their child. The fourth point to coping with grief is to adapt to the loss of your child to abortion.